One who fears failure limits his activities. Failure is only the opportunity to more intelligently begin again. -- Henry Ford
Well, it's been a while! I apologize for the absence, I was busy celebrating new life as my son and his family welcomed a new baby into the fold. Always exciting!
Recently, I've been speaking and writing quite a lot about reframing. This is such an important skill, I wanted to share some of my thoughts with you.
We all know that words matter. The stories we tell ourselves about our selves matter -- Henry Ford also said, "Whether you think you can or think you can't your right."
Those stories help determine the results you see in your life.
Do you like your results? If not, explore the story you're telling yourself that gave you those results.
Do you like the story you’re telling yourself? Or would you prefer a different story?
Guess what . . . for better or worse, you have chosen that story. Which means, if you don’t like it, you can choose a different one, a better one.
Choosing a different story, re-telling the story, is what reframing is. When we reframe something, we’re not deceiving or deluding ourselves. We’re not lying to ourselves about our circumstances. We’re consciously choosing an alternate story that is equally true, and that has more utility for us.
Here's an example.
Let’s talk about a reframe for failure.
Who here has failed? Has anybody NOT failed? Failure is part of the system. It’s a tool, not an outcome. It’s a resource to be managed, just like all the other resources in your life. When you manage it properly and make it part of your system, you’ll find your success.
Failure isn’t the end, it just makes you stronger and smarter as you advance to the next level in your life, and in your business.
You see the power of the reframe?
So, again, do you like your results? Do you like the story you're telling yourself about yourself?
Ready to change that story?
Then it's time to reframe.
Remember: when you reframe your story, tell it in a way that has more utility for you. Tell it in a way that makes it possible to get the results you want to see in your life.
Because whether you think you can, or think you can't, YOU'RE RIGHT!!!
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